Self Appreciation for Life Values

Recently, I just got some flashbacks from my old self.
A deep throwback.

I just feel like,.. I'm so stupid back then.
I always search for appreciation from certain people.
I always want to be smart like them, I want to be praised like them.
Kind of wanna be popular and adore by others like them.

I didn't even realize, that thing is actually destroying me inside.

You know when you just hoping for others to look at your potential.
You hope for people to appreciate your present.
You hope for others to remember you, to like you.
You hope for people to adore you like they adore someone before.
You just want to be admire like they admire other people before.
Unrealized, you are expecting something beyond your control.

One thing that people didn't realize is,
appreciation of the true self.
The self-awareness thingy, the self appreciation, the self knowledge.

If you want to achieve something , what does it for ?
Do you want to exposed your talent so that people can see and praised you?
So that you can compete with others?
So that you can fit into others boxes?
or...
Do you want to achieve it for yourself?
Your passion?
To search for your own life values?
To appreciate yourself? To feel your true self?
To search for your own unique personality?
To search for meaningful and true happiness that your soul worth it for?

This is the thing that destroying us inside,
when we're hoping and expecting for others appreciation.

What I'm trying to tell is, did we concern and truly know our main intention ?
Like truly our main intention from the first place.
Why do we do that ? Why do we work hard in achieving our goals and dreams ?
Is it for others to see and praise our achievements?
Is it because of we didn't want people to look down on ourselves?

This is the thing, we lose our self value in intentions.

Feeling down?
We let ourselves be in that situation at the first place. Get up !
Learn to know yourself, realize your potential , DO NOT COMPARE yourself with others.
Don't bother if the world's put you down. It doesn't even matter.

Let others underestimate you.
It doesn't even matter. It's beyond your control.
But you, DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF.
Believe in yourself even others didn't.

The moment you realize your values, your talent, your personality,
You are not easily let your inner self talking negatively comparing yourself with others.
We always searching for people's approval rather than we approve and accept ourselves first.
We were scared, because we know people will underestimate us.

That thing really destroying us.
Enough of looking at others achievements, others' skills.

Look at yourself .
ACCEPT,APPRECIATE,BE GRATEFUL & BUILD YOUR POTENTIAL.

Our lives, are not for others to approve.
It is for us,... to be in our own track.

Appreciate and...
be happy with yourself.

H.B

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